I Can't Save U By: Angela Superfly

  More than ever I’ve been running into a lot of broken men that are filled with distrust and hurt caused by black women of their past. Some of the pain stems from their mothers and their upbringing. Those, men that throw all women in the same category and treat all women like hoes. The ones that are only interested in occasional sex with a woman not much else. I wanted to share this open letter of apology to all of our black men in an effort to heal the divide of our black man and black wombman.

I do understand why your eyes are filled with pain and your heart with distrust. I once asked the questions who falls the hardest when it comes to love? I said men, although it’s easier for women to obtain sex. It is hard for a man to say I am going to leave all these women alone to spend the rest of my life with you. So when they do give up the rest and give one woman their loyalty everyone knows this man is for real. Then, to have this one woman, who they made this big sacrifice for, break their heart. They really never heal because they just go to the next woman and the next. , never taking the time necessary to heal.
Dear Black Man I love you and I do understand,
Although you were missing from my life I always knew the value of you Oh Mighty King. Over time I grew curious of what my life would have been like if I had a strong male figure guiding and protecting me. Then I wondered why others around me did not see the value in you. Oh they fear you but didn’t recognize your strength.
I want to apologize for the women who said your daddy’s wasn’t ish to your face, who made you believe that all women are trifling, who told you men like you comes a dime a dozen, the woman that took you on the Maury show just to tell the world you are NOT the father, for the women who use your children as a source to hurt you, for those that don’t understand your plight, trial and tribulations. or see the snares place to keep you down, for the women that said you didn’t make enough and you aren’t ish, for the woman who say they are the father & the mother celebrating father’s day.
I want to apologize on behalf of all women who mistreated, disrespected, lied, cheated, that didn’t value your presence in the home, who got you locked up because she knew the laws were against you, the women that brought drama into your life and took peace out of your life. I apologize for the women that want the big ole wedding, the ring and the house over you, for the women who love to emasculate you because she is strong and independent. —she wears the pants too!
I hope you find it in your heart to forgive them for they know not what they do. Forgive yourself because we need you to heal. This is a vicious cycle that we must break. I come in peace breathing life into you. We need you and value your role as a man. Our sons need you, our daughters, our women, our communities and the earth need you strong! Love always from a sister who sees through the propaganda and the madness. It takes a village but there’s no village w/o you King!!!

Written By: Angela Superfly

The One By: Angela Superfly

…if you are lucky enough to meet “The One”, you do not have to ask, “Is this The One?” You will know.
How many times have you met someone who touched your heart and you have asked, “Is this person, ”The One’?” This expression refers to “The One For Me”…. From the time we are able to desire a partner, most people seek The One, the person who is here to make them feel complete/happy. That person would be a lifetime partner, always there with unconditional love, compassion and understanding. The One is here to share your journey, through all of its detours, and to support your decisions as you evolve.  I want to connect with someone: Spiritual (pure consciousness connection), Physical (passion), Romantic (feeds the heart and fantasies), Emotional (understands and fills our many needs), Mental (growing together and sharing new choices/goals).
 You find The One when you find yourself, by healing and creating balance. The One refers to the Union of Self, finding balance, and high self esteem. The One is your soul, divided by the barriers of feeling naked and alone.
Through the years, who we are, and what we become, our personal needs and goals, changes. To find The One, who would compliment us throughout our journey, is certainly a challenge. At a given point in time we can meet a soul who compliments our journey at that point, but will it last?
We are genetically encoded to seek The One, the feeling growing stronger as consciousness evolves. The One, as your Twin Flame/Soul, is your opposite, yin / yang, the balance aspect of your soul who makes you feel complete and waits in higher frequency for soul reunion often guiding your path in third dimension. This reunion comes at Zero Point Merge when your consciousness returns to its natural state of light.
Live your life. Embrace the moment. Be kind and caring.  If The One for you is out there, and you are BOTH ready, you will attract each other by synchronicity, no other way.

Written By: Angela Superfly